Restler, from What Do You Do That Can’t Be Measured

Restler highlights the significant impact of unquantifiable actions like personal connections, emotional support, and mentorship. It shows that the true value of our efforts often lies in fostering growth, resilience, and confidence in others, even when those effects are hard to measure.

This chapter helps me think about myself and others by reinforcing the idea that our worth isn’t solely defined by measurable achievements. It highlights the importance of empathy, understanding, and the relationships we build. I realize that my interactions with students and colleagues can foster growth and resilience in ways that may not be easily quantified, but are impactful.

As a college advisor for first-generation, low-income students and those with disabilities, my role goes beyond academics. I help students navigate college life and access important resources, but the conversations we have about our personal journeys, our challenges and successes are what truly matter. By celebrating their achievements, big or small, I help boost their confidence and affirm their worth. This reflects Restler’s focus on the value of unmeasurable actions, showing how building connections and offering emotional support can make a lasting impact. These discussions create a safe space where students can express themselves without fear of judgment. Ultimately, the care and support I provide shape my students’ college experiences in ways that go beyond traditional metrics, highlighting that education is about personal growth as much as academic success.

My dedication to being there for students during tough times, whether by listening or offering a kind word can’t be measured, but it is crucial for their overall well-being. The connections I build help them feel seen and appreciated, supporting their growth in ways that go beyond just academics. Ultimately, these unmeasurable aspects of my work shape their college experience and create a strong, supportive community.

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